Content Warning: In this episode we discuss emotional and physical abuse as well as addiction. 

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Hello esteemed listeners! We adored A Gentleman’s Guide to Vice and Virtue by Mackenzi Lee!! What a delightful romp of a book. Below you’ll find plenty of links and resources to complement our discussion.

We mention Monty’s internalization of his father’s abusive messages. This is, of course, a deeply personal and painful topic. Here are a few perspectives: “The Inner/Internal Abuser” and “Accountability for Internalized Abuse: Moving Closer to Self-love” (BIPOC viewpoint of internalizing messages of various interlocking oppressions).

Monty sometimes adopts a “colorblind”** approach to race in his relationship to Percy. Here is an academic deep dive into why “colorblind-racism” upholds white supremacy, and there are many other studies and posts on the topic (such as this one…and this other one…). Ijeoma Oluo’s So You Want to Talk About Race and  are some other book-length resources to check out.

** We acknowledge that this term itself is problematic because it is an example of ableist language. PLEASE  learn more about removing such language from your vocabulary. Here’s a resource to begin the work.

White saviorism also comes into play with Monty. Here is Teju Cole’s discussion of the White-Savior Industrial Complex and an incisive callout of “volunteer” trips to “Africa” by Chidera Ihejerika. For more about this topic, we highly recommend following and supporting No White Saviors.

White fragility also rears its ugly head (I mean…when doesn’t it??). Robin DiAngelo’s White Fragility: Why It’s So Hard for White People to Talk About Race is a must-read. It even comes with a reading group guide!!

We fully support Felicity going after that spinster life. Episode 2.3 of Secret Feminist Agenda, one of K’s fave podcasts, tackles this issue, as does Briallen Hopper’s piece “On Spinsters”.

There’s so much to say about disability and illness and cure as they show up in the novel. K reads from the description of Brilliant Imperfection by Eli Clare. For real, not-at-all-ficticious footage of J eating a magical, alchemical heart, click here.

Good, ole Wikipedia has much more information on the deplorable history of sodomy laws in the United States. Lawrence v. Texas was the Supreme Court Case that struck down all sodomy laws in the United States…and that was only in 2003. WTF.

Yay for bi visibility! But that’s not really the norm. The Bisexual Resource Center has numerous resources, especially pertaining to Biphobia and Bi Erasure. Here’s a longer piece about bi representation on TV specifically.

As always, we’d love to be in discussion with you, magical listener. Let us know what you think of the episode, anything we missed, or anything else you want us to know by dropping a line in the comments or reaching out to us on twitter or Instagram (@jkmagicpod), or via email ( And if you’re feeling extra nice, you can donate to us on Ko-fi!

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